Hello, hello! I truly didn’t mean to take so much time off from daily blogging but I suppose that’s the reality of traveling with two toddlers while pregnant — there really aren’t enough hours in the day! We are now back in Connecticut through my due date in September and I’m very excited to have some time in front of my computer to share our trip with all of you and prioritize getting our lives back in order (all the unpacking, laundry, nesting, etc.!) before baby #3 makes his debut. I appreciate you bearing with me during this hectic time!
Today’s post will be all about where we stayed in Italy, what worked well, and what we’d do differently next time. I hope it’s helpful for any of you planning on traveling with toddlers and/or while pregnant, but please let me know if I can answer any other questions in the comments!
P.S. You can see all our toddler travel gear in this post!
TRAVELING TO ITALY WITH TODDLERS
The view from our VRBO in Massa Lubrense!
A local beach in Massa Lubrense a quick (but very steep!) walk from the house.
Bougainvillea everywhere!
toddler sunglasses // swim trunks (size down) // waterproof loafers
The drive from the town Massa Lubrense to the house we rented.
Enjoying the view with my mom in matching raffia slippers (natural/orange here and pink/tan here!).
WHERE WE STAYED
We booked this house rental through VRBO in Massa Lubrense, a town about 15 minutes outside Sorrento on the Amalfi Coast. The rental was largely dictated by the number of bedrooms and bathrooms we needed to accommodate a large group with young children as opposed to ideal proximity to particular destinations, restaurants, etc. so I would keep that in mind if you’re looking into a similar trip! The property housed our large group very comfortably, showed off with the most extraordinary sunsets every evening, and was a short (albeit very steep) walk to the local beach at the bottom of the hill.
But if you’re looking for proximity to popular destinations on the Amalfi Coast, it might be worth looking into other options that aren’t a $50+ cab ride one way. Also worth noting: there were 73 steps from the garage to the main floor of the house, which were definitely a hurdle while pregnant and traveling with kids, so something to note if accessibility is a factor for your group!
My parents, brothers, and one of their girlfriends were all so incredibly hands-on with our two boys and my cousin’s son as well! We literally couldn’t have done this trip without their energy, enthusiasm, and readiness to pitch in and hope we can repay the favor someday. 🙂
WHAT WORKED WELL
First and foremost
We couldn’t and wouldn’t have done this trip with kids while pregnant without the help of many family members pitching in throughout the day. Things like having my mom sit next to Teddy at dinner or my dad walk around with Peter on the plane were absolutely crucial to our survival and enjoyment of the whole experience!
Second
My cousin’s husband is extremely organized and very generously took the lead on booking restaurant and beach club reservations throughout the trip. One request that I think worked out pretty well was to space out our outings with a couple more low-key days close to home in between. For instance, we gave ourselves a couple days to get settled and adjust to the time difference at home before doing a day trip to Positano. Then another couple days honoring normal nap schedules and just doing the local beach in the afternoons. Then a day trip to Capri followed by a couple more days close to home, etc.
I think this made it 100x more manageable with kids who are used to napping at home vs. on the go in strollers (particularly when it was so hot outside) and while pregnant (it made it easier to find the energy to be out and about all day knowing I’d have a couple “easier” days at home to rest up afterwards). Of course it wasn’t a perfect system once we factored in jet lag, people needing to work or take calls at various hours of the day and night. And just the general exhaustion of traveling internationally with kids while pregnant.
But the combination of having a ton of family members around to help with kids and giving ourselves real down time between bigger outings made the whole trip so much more enjoyable than if we’d been trying to cram a dozen things into every day like we were often inclined to do before having kids.
If you find yourself in Massa Lubrense, definitely have dinner one night at Il Cantuccio!
So grateful to have found an outdoor restaurant close to our rental that was so accommodating of our large crew.
My parents watched the boys one night so the “kids” could venture a little farther out to Hotel Corralo in Sorrento to celebrate my cousin’s birthday! I wore this dress, these sunglasses, and these espadrilles (my cousin’s jumpsuit is no longer available but this and this give me similar vibes!).
Third
We found a restaurant called Il Cantuccio in Massa Lubrense that was a five-minute drive from the house and that offered a courtesy shuttle to and from dinner. I think we wound up having dinner there at least five times throughout our trip because they made it so easy for us to get there and back and the atmosphere was welcoming of both our large group and three kids under the age of three. Before having kids, I would have mapped out a different lunch and dinner reservation for every day of our trip, but ease and familiarity for the kids definitely beat out novelty and wanting to try every cool place I’d saved on Instagram before the trip.
Fourth
Being on or by a body of water was crucial for surviving the heat with kids. We tried to take a pleasant stroll through Sorrento the day after we arrived and it was brutally hot compared to the days we spent at a beach club in Positano, on a boat in Capri, and at the thermal spring pools in Ischia.
Last but not least
A few much closer-to-home weekend trips with our boys in the spring helped me adapt a completely different mindset about traveling with kids that I think was imperative before taking on this longer and more involved trip. I really relinquished the idea that there is one perfect packing list or one comprehensive set of baby gear that would prevent any hiccups or missed naps or misbehavior during the flights.
I accepted that those moments were absolutely inevitable and those lowered expectations made it possible to be genuinely grateful for the great moments sprinkled throughout our trip vs. constantly disappointed by the more challenging ones. Travel with kids is an adventure and the whole nature of an adventure is that you can’t perfectly anticipate or be in control of every aspect of it!
WHAT WE’D DO DIFFERENTLY NEXT TIME
I think if we did this again, we would probably prioritize finding a house with a pool for the kids — we are very much a beach-loving family, but the hike down to the very rocky local beach sometimes felt like a big undertaking just for a quick dip before dinner.
Ideally, you’d also visit the Amalfi Coast in particular in either May/June or September/October when it’s not quite so hot, but my parents’ academic year schedule dictated the timing of the trip and I’m so, so glad we went during the hottest time of the year vs. not going at all!
Also, I am the last person on earth to prioritize practical over pretty footwear, but I accept in hindsight that all the Amalfi Coast packing lists that include some kind of water shoes for the rocky beaches are admittedly onto something. I don’t think you have to break down and order a pair of Crocs for the occasion, but maybe a pair of these that you can tuck in your beach bag?
COMING UP
I have lots of photos to share from our day trips to Positano, Capri, and Ischia that I’ll spread throughout this week and next, but let me know if there’s anything else you want to see!